Hi friends! A person himself can be the bast partner for him. But we never feel it because we live in a community where various types of people live and everyday we face many good and bad experiences with them.
Sometimes we feel very peace when we get the people surrounding us is thankful and helpful. But life become hell when they are toxic. And only on that time we feel mentally sick and try to spend lonely to find the solution. A man born to be free. He wants to lead a happy life with his family and friends. When I was in school some of my friends were very helpful and some were very selfish. A good company never let us to fell any depression.
We spent our leisure with our bes companies in childhood. We play together and had a lot of fun that made our childhood golden memorable. We had no tension about life. Only one thing that made us curious was school exam. So we never feel about the harsh reality of life. Whar is depression we didn’t feel. But life is not flow in a same way. When we grow up we started to see various characteristics people around us. Cleaver, fool, mghty, weak, brave, fearful, help full or selfish various types of characters we met every day. A tender-minded child can't realize these, but a grown-up person can distinguish between different characters. And on that point we fall into tha reality of our society. All person are not the same.
The behaviour you can find from a kind hearted person, you can't find that in a mean-minded person. So we shouldn’t expect anything to others. If they want, they can help us but if they refuse to help, we won’t feel shy as we dont expect anything to them. Once Socrates said if you want to be hapoy don’t expect anything to anyone. I reflect very recently when my relatives treat me as a fool. I need a lot of mobey to repair my house in Dhaka city. But I hav not enough money. So I neee to sell sone prooerty of my geand father from my portion. As my father died and he never wanted that I sell my grandfathers lad of my pirtion.
He wanted that prooerty will consume his younger borther and his family which is fulky non ethical to me because my father didn’t reoair our house on himself. So it as the duty of him Since he died it is high time I started to rebuild my house. But my uncle started to beat around the bush with me. My father looked after my unckles family for a long time and in return I am getting their hypocrisy from them. It has forced me to reflect myself.
I understand that everyone will beside you in your good time. But when the bad time comes you can see the real characters of them. Hardly you can find someone beside you in bad time selflessly. They are the real friend of you. Now I often reflect and it help me to find solution of many problems. It helpes me to understand myself too. I should continue to reflect for a more peaceful life.
