Understanding catharsis as a way to purify the soul, to remove a pain that involves a deep wound in our being, through some expression that helps to drain everything that has accumulated inside us and that somehow is causing damage to us as individuals and to our family environment.
Although I do not fully understand how catharsis works and if there is a verifiable result that actions like these can heal wounds of the soul. I am referring to a form of catharsis to be able to find an ear willing to pay attention, a soul that is open to receive through the verb what one day experienced in his being, and also could overcome it, that person who can really say -I was there at a time in my life, but I got up, Wooo how powerful that would be-
however, when your wounds still bleed, there is a risk that deep inside you, any phrase or speech of encouragement may sound hypocritical, you may think that no one can understand your pain, and so it is difficult to heal you. .. Well, well, well, well, then when you don't have the possibility to talk to someone, write, unload everything you have through the keyboard and let him help you to drain all the anger, impotence and pain that you carry inside.
I understand that loyalty is that quality of valuing, showing respect and fidelity to a person, family group, to some thought, determined conduct, projects, etc.; it is a quality that we value a lot, that sometimes we demand and we would like to be objects of it, but that many times it is difficult to show.
Loyalty often goes unnoticed and is undervalued in some cases and for various reasons, it seems that when you are the object of it and you have at your side people who value you, respect you and are loyal, this quality becomes imperceptible, and there gains strength the popular saying "Nobody knows what he has until he loses it".
It is until you suffer a betrayal when you really understand the value of loyalty, it is then when it becomes painful to wake up and realize that someone to whom you dedicated time of your life, effort, effort, commitment and material resources somehow did not value everything you gave unreservedly.
At times like these everything becomes confusing, we are assaulted by doubt and questions arise that are like spears piercing the soul: Seriously I did not know how to value when they were loyal? What things did I do wrong? I am guilty of their attitude?, it is a very confusing situation and everything is within the realm of possibility.
I also think that loyalty is a decision of each person, that is, I decide to be loyal even in the most unfavorable conditions, and although the attitude and mistakes of the other may somehow affect the relationship in marriage, work relationship, friendship, financial etc, I should not use the mistakes of the other as a justification for my actions, this is just my way of thinking.
Friends, at all these, betrayal is a dagger that hurts and hurts a lot, but at the same time it makes you reflect and you start to look behind and try to find your weak points, the mistakes you made with that person, to try to restore the relationship or to avoid that the mistakes are repeated in the future with others.
**Have you ever been betrayed? If so, you understand very well what I am writing, what I am trying to get out with this publication, but do not make the mistake of hastily judging the one who betrays you, it is possible that he or she is not entirely to blame, examine the whole trajectory, it is possible that the blame is shared, and although I think, as I mentioned above that we should not see the mistakes of the other as a justification for our decisions and actions, it is possible that a systematic and repeated attitude of your art had a high level of influence for the final result.
Now, none of the above justifies a disloyal and treacherous attitude, and although all this generates a deep burden of sadness and pain, everything eventually passes and the wounds heal, there may be consequences, but if there is willingness on both sides I think that trust can be restored, surely it will cost effort, but it can be achieved.
Friends, every person is worthy of a new opportunity, one of the most beautiful qualities of life that a human being can exhibit, is forgiveness, in the Bible we find three concepts that come to my mind at this moment, JUSTICE, GRACE and MERCY; JUSTICE is about giving everyone what they DESERVE, MERCY is about sympathy, forgiveness and letting go, but GRACE although it is very similar to MERCY goes further, MERCY proposes forgiveness with opportunities and service.
JUSTICE takes a thief and imprisons him for his crime, MERCY grants forgiveness to the same thief and sets him free, but GRACE, GRACE takes this same thief, forgives his fault, sets him free and takes him home to attend to his needs.
A small disclaimer from a servant, I appreciate all your comments!
