The physical you and the physical world around you doesnt exist until your consciousness perceives it. It returns to it's wave form when not perceived. It exists in energy wave form until observed. All possibilities are equally probable until observed. Did you notice I'm not saying seen? Energy exists and cannot be destroyed, only converted from one form to another. Out of energy comes consciousness. Consciousness being energy, it cannot be destroyed. Only converted. Out of consciousness comes choice. Choice is also ultimately energy which cannot be destroyed. That choice transforms your perception of what we call reality. Choose to see the world the way you want it to be and it will bend to your choice. It may be immediate or it may take an eternity but you can change it.