Change happens with time,time causes change.
This just how humans natural setting is, one minute you're liked the other minute you're disliked, not just for no reason though but for an external or internal action that birthed that change in feeling or reaction. So I am prepared for any. I might act good and still be disliked, I'm not just talking about the bad energies or something, even good and loving people are been hated on because they choose not to be for the world or the majority.
Humans emotional changes doesn't happen suddenly, there must have been a factor or an individual who initiated such feelings causing a change in mind and psychology. A subtle act of pleasing some people in a different geopolitical setting cam create hatred just because you might be of different tribe or ethnicity, this act is from a kind heart but its now turning into hatred, now what was the factor that triggered this change in emotions? IT IS SENTIMENT. Forgetting that help comes from anyone and any where.
Some words that comes out of some individuals mouth will keep you wondering if you're not human too, like "if you're not my people I don't like you automatically ".
With words like this coming from fellow humans like you, killed that desires to continue pleasing humans because it drains me a lot and I couldn't get anything out of it.
Relating this dynamic changes about humans, i vividly remembered when i was a class representative in college I was part of a executive groups where they discuss about politics and how when they have any opportunity to steal money they would, no one hated each other for a while not until I and two other executive said we won't be part of such agenda, we we're elected to serve the people and not to embezzle cash, immediately we were flagged enemies, we were showered hatred, so I ask why was the change in emotions amongst us? I think it was change in interest.
Immediately I stood up for truth and fairness, a change in psychology and emotions started. I was liked just a few moment ago, now I'm disliked because I said NO to negativity. Once you're not in the interest of an organization, you are flagged an outsider.
I've got to learn over the past few years that I can only try to portray myself In a certain way but in the long run, you can't make or force people to believe you. It is always a personal decision especially to fit their interest, once it's not in the interest of them you're disliked. So understand that you can't be for everybody and everyone won't be for you.
They are some person no matter how hard you try to please them, they still neglect and ignore you. I have been lending someone cash for sometime, tje day I said I got nothing on me his attitude changed immediately after few days I decided to test him by texting him I have gotten some cash, to my surprise he came over my room so I could give him. See how dynamic humans can be??.
He actually forgot the times I was giving him cash without asking for refund, but since I was not of interest to him (for saying I don't have) that dislike sets in.
Always mind the set of people around your cycle.
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