Learn from others Experience.
Just this morning I had an interesting session of discussion with my colleagues about inevitable life mistakes. So I decided to share with my wonderful #dailyblog, we schooled each other and I learnt a thing or two afterwards.
I have come to understand that not all circumstances must happen before I get the exact experience especially a negative energy sort of experience, vital information or advice can be tabled down so you take caution, like whenever I hear or read of an endangered pattern analysis that has been distabilizing other people, just hearing or seeing the caution board or words from those that have witness it, that's enough for me.
Like I do say, there's no shortcut to success, so it's generally said right? Everyone must have heard of it. But then I can tell you there are valuable tips, advise or mentorship that can propel or create direct route to success.
As I thought about this concept, I then came across a very explanatory folk tale where one elderly man asked the young ones what number of times it would take them to learn a lesson from their ugly experiences and mistakes. While answering the questions, one said he might have to make mistakes up to four times before realizing and learn his lesson, another said it would be twice and he's sure won't make such mistakes again that's after the second mistakes. Smartly speaking, the last amongst them said something the rest never thought of.
He said, he won't need to make any mistakes or rather have an ugly experiences before he learns, he would have paid attention to others experience and make sure he doesn't repeat same issue.
Upon hearing these the elderly man commended him on his level of intelligence and smartness.
So therefore what this little tale highlights is that someone doesn't necessarily need to make mistakes not that it is evitable but not in all cases mistakes can be made or going through ugly experiences, learn from others. It's often said that experience is the best teacher, but then why wait to witness such experiences when there are people passing through similar situation that I can learn and quickly make readjustment on? Just like the tale, the first person would go through few mistakes before realizing, another said similar thing also, maybe failing twice but the last person smartly used their own experience to re adjust and plan well so such mistakes will not occur.
Someone might said "it's easier said than done"
I quite agreed that life can be unfair sometimes leading one to mistakes no matter how hard or advises he or she has got, but what I have come to understand is that there's a thing or two an individual should have learnt from others experience just to make sure his isn't same, and not to capitalize on the foreseen event that will still occur.
It was a lovely discussion I had today. I would love if you all share your views also.
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Till I write to you what tomorrow holds.
