Dutifulness Can Preemptively Destroy Your Life and Your Identity...
Hi, dear Steemians!
When you were just a child, the obligations of society and the deep and often painful matters of adult life could not compromise your secure boundaries of comfort and ease.
Eventually, as you grew older, your parents felt the need to teach you about living and the responsibilities that come with it. Before then, you knew only how to enjoy your moments and assume the role of the careless thinker.
But after that, you were forced to accept some hard truths; that life is not always going to be fun and games, that you needed to accomplish things for yourself, so that you could have a prosperous life and be untroubled by the necessities that society ordains for you.
And that was the moment whole generations were put under the illusory spell of obligation and their dreams flew away to a land unbeknownst to them.
You see, our family and close friends have always preached to us about how we should live our life.
About how we should finish our education in a field that may not even be to our liking, because it obviously has more career opportunities.
About how we should accept mandatory and depressive jobs in narrow and heartless offices where endless people work the machines to feed the ever-growing system of a relentless society.
This concept that we were raised with, from a certain point of our life, is known as dutifulness. Dutifulness can destroy your life if you do not understand it.
It is mature and courageous to take responsibility of your own life.
That should not be mistaken for dutifulness. Dutifulness is the idea that success and achievement can only come if you take away joy from your life and embrace pain.
Ever since you were small and started to learn about dutifulness, a fallacious and erroneous thought erupted in your mind and grew. You thought that joy and happiness were from the time you used to play with your toys.
Anything that did not resemble that sense of joy could be contributed to you being dutiful and responsible about your own life. That is why many of us cannot enjoy our jobs.
That is why we think to study, to learn, to understand, to work and etc. is just labor and no joy or consolation of any sorts could come out of it.
The danger of dutifulness lies in the fact that you inadvertently give up on experiencing maturity as you should, and think that every mandatory and obligatory deed in society should be done in a spiteful way.
More so, some people forsake their dreams for the sake of being responsible for their future. A career in arts or some other explosive and innovative idea is no stable way to pay the loans or cover the costs of living.
That is why dutifulness is, at its best, the death of your dreams. Do not mistake it with being responsible for your future.
Dutifulness is the idea that nothing good could ever come out of anything if you started enjoying your professional work.
Life is afflicted with pain, but that does not mean that every aspect of its professional side should be considered painful or erroneous. We could learn to love our jobs, or follow our dreams with fearlessness.
Follow, above all else, the thing that brings you joy, happiness, and fulfilment.
You can trust me when I say that the other aspects of it will fall in order on their own!
A BIG HUG!
@chbartist==================
Important Note!
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You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!
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Thanks All of You!!!!