In this life, I believe there is no smoke without fire. The way people act is often a reflection of what life has put them through…
When someone gets angry easily, it could be that they need love, or their heart is heavy and unhappy. Some people are deeply hurt, and any little thing can piss them off. It is rare to see a truly happy and fulfilled person getting angry unnecessarily…
I have been there too. Sometime around 2011, I was heartbroken, and it changed me completely. From being that guy who tolerated almost everything and rarely got angry, I became an angry bird. Every little thing pissed me off, and hardly a week passed without me getting into a fight. It took time before I finally healed and stopped getting mad unnecessarily…
So most times when I see someone who gets angry easily, I try to avoid them if we are not close. But if they are my friends, I observe and try to understand what they might be going through that triggered such behavior…
Life has gone beyond being hot-tempered because if we truly think about the consequences it can bring, we would pray to be delivered from such a spirit. That is the story I am about to share…
There were once two close friends. Wherever you saw T, just know P was nearby. They were well known in the neighborhood, always outside in the evenings playing ludo together…
On one fateful day, they were playing as usual when an argument suddenly started. Before anyone knew it, it escalated. People tried to settle the fight, but T was hot-tempered and refused to listen. In anger, he punched P, but unfortunately, the punch landed on P’s gullet, and he died instantly…
Every attempt to save P was in vain. He was gone.
T regretted fighting his best friend. It was the first time anything like that had happened between them. If only he had listened when people tried to settle the fight… but it was already too late. His best friend was gone, and he was sentenced to life imprisonment for taking another person’s life…
His hot temper led to the death of his best friend and also destroyed his own life. What a wasted life…
Stories like this are what made me stop fighting because you never truly know who is who. Many people are walking corpses, only waiting for someone to send them on their way. May we never fall victim. That is why we must be careful not to pick fights with anyone…
God has taken control over my life. I am no longer hot-tempered because my heart has finally found peace.
The best way to handle hot-tempered people is to show them love. Most of them are fighting battles within, and love can help heal whatever is making them angry. Once their hearts find peace, their anger will calm down, and they will learn to temper mercy with justice.
Just call me Burl.
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