Anger is a very dangerous feeling that most times those who feels it don鈥檛 even know how destroying it is. Although anger comes in different ways and in different circumstances, but the issue is how you control your own anger when it starts because being around those who are so hot tempered and can not control themselves is the most dangerous involvement .
Although, I could say that some people are born with hot temper which is why the are quick to aggressiveness with little situations that does not matter so much and can not even control it. And while this is so, many others are suffering from heart broken situations that has made them to dwell deeply in hot temper, hostility and aggressive nature. So with this burden, they are always quick to burst on others, loosing their mind because of long carrying pain and emotion.
I have learnt long ago to stay away from hot tempered people because I have experienced problems with people that are hostile. As a Realtor and Site Supervisor, I have encountered clients with hostile nature who turned out to go extra miles with words that you don鈥檛 expect of them to voice out if things were generally okay. But because what they might expect did not work out the right way, they suddenly will change, loose their temper and will end up talking to you any how.
When I was managing a site sometime ago, I came across some of these guys who once you have given them job to do at the site will suddenly change in behavior. These are people who naturally will look calm to you when begging you for some jobs. And once the job has been assigned, will change when you inspect and tell them some faults you noticed. This is pure aggressiveness and hostility. Is either they are not in their right mind due to alcoholic, weeds or they are emotionally suffering because of the circumstances they found themselves.
For me, emotions, circumstances or inherited anger or hot temper is not an excuse to why you should not act accordingly to people around you or to the society. Any one can get angry 馃槫, but every anger should have a limit. Don鈥檛 carry your own problem on your head or move around with it all over your faces. Usually I will want to know and study people around me, especially if I have noticed the person as hot tempered individual. Then I will try talking to you on why anger is dangerous even to our physical appearance and mentally because people don鈥檛 know that constantly stating angry for longer periods of time can lead to heart 鈾ワ笍 disease 馃
So the remedy to anger is to always control yourself because everyone of us has that length of temper problem, but we all also has different ways to control anger. Some will explode while some will retrieve into their shell with thoughtfulness . You can not allow your anger to control you, make you do dangerous things and later blame your temper you could have controlled.
In all, we know how tough live is which has affected so many individuals, subjected and changed them completely from what they use to be. That kinda heart loving 馃グ person, that genuinely human being, but anger can not solve that problem and this is what those who are suffering from the past needs to know. We need to play our parts if we are close to any hot tempered person. Our friends, those we love 馃挄 and cared for, family members, colleagues and more because they might be destroying themselves without not knowing the consequences to hot temperedness.
This is my response to the #hivelearners featured content for week 218, edition 01.
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