Life sometimes teaches us how to act and what not to react, which path to choose and which not to tread even if it seems comfortable, lucrative and tempting. We grow, we live forth, we develop ourselves and reach to a conclusion - but all of them are by the decisions we make.
It is a saying that goes this as like,
We are just our choices and nothing else.
I have been really bored and anguished at the attempts I made to build a solid base for future of life and that didnt work. Sometimes because the pressures were heavy on me, what I hoped somehow my level was far away from it.
Maybe I depended upon others to do a task and instead of doing they cheated with me, didnt give much in return and things started to get messy. All had an expiry date. But Later I found, whatever I did and became that meant something meaningful which accumulated into large being and held the way to future.
The learning that popped from me that, when tough times come in life, one has to be watchful of how they react. If it seems as that there arent any scope but not to quit, maybe we can be in love with someone and there are no ways but to get away and it feels bad at quitting.
Thats also where focus is needed to build,lesson to be learnt and engagement needed to be built. We decide not for any individual but that decides the fate of others who will be the next generation, the family, society and others as well.
There would be a difficult road to follow sometimes and only patience is what gets us to a level of learning. Once the chances get that it seems hard to be on the rhythm of life and we seem to fade away.
Frustration starts to get to one's soul and there are level to where people reacts to. Plight, sufferings and success would definitely come to us and they should never be the stumbling block to life. We should be wise to tread on and end up gaining the end products in the end.
Because its the journey in life that matters most with how we react alongside it.