This one is undeniably intriguing, for not just one, but plenty of reasons. Most importantly this is absolutely universal.
Yes! It is! For sure! You won't be surprised!
They (I mean the kids, the teens and even the grownup ones), almost all of them… poke, joke, argue, blame, annoy, fight, envy, be jealous, dominate, steal, punch and kick, get mad at each other, all the time, yet love and take care of each other.
This is literally, true! This is really insane!
This is indeed most subjective, serious and yet hilarious topic/subject that none can avoid. It had happened in the earlier times (rather more!), it's happening now and will continue to happen as long as humanity is there on earth.
Its totally universal! had happened, Is happening and will continue to...
It’s unavoidable! Really…it is! Most of the time, it leads to confusion and chaos! But it can’t be curbed! It can be controlled and pacified, though for a little while! And then It erupts…again…and again…and again!
These are the images of my nieces playing at home, in the garden
It's... Siblings most misunderstood…Rivalry and love!
It literally remains the most sought after topic amongst majority of parents, relatives and near and dear family friends.
Though exceptions are everywhere! Not denying that, at all!
Each family would have its own story to share and it just sounds very similar or familiar happening even at one’s own home and definitely all across the neighbourhood.
These are the images of my nieces playing at home, in the garden
It's denial is totally impossible because someone amongst the kids, the teens or even the older ones, there is someone who is always ready to take this bitter sweet revenge and then there is hullaballoo at home, leading to big time ruckus that may take minutes or hours to resolve or may be even little longer than expected.
Its recurring...for sure!
It can be over anything...just anything, you name it...clothes, books, food, friends, personal items, cycles, sports gear, bags, shoes, movies, mobile phones, electronic gadgets and the list is totally endless!
Usually it consumes, loads of energy of parents!
As soon as the dust settles down, from the first one, the second one crops up and then it's after effects… one after the other, continue for finite amount of time.
It may have various moods, joyful, petty, ugly, mean and even nasty! and so on...!!!
Parents always make an effort to retain harmony at home amongst all the siblings but some such conflicts may also have serious repercussions, with the passage of time, the clash of egos flares up the conflict.
Sometimes, its dramatically out of control! One has to leave it to time!
These are the images of my nieces playing at home, in the garden
Sometimes, most irrational topics become most rational and the debate continues. This one is tiresome to control.
Quite surprisingly, there are some standard complaints, excuses and issues that often come up…again & again!
He/she did it, not me!
You always take his/her side!
I am not the only one here!
Noooooo! Go away! Don't bother me!
Just stop it!!!
I know you don't love me anymore!
This is so sick!
This is mine.
His/her friends vs my friends!
His/her pocket money vs mine.
He/she can go anywhere but not me!
Why do you always treat me like a child and not him/her?
Stop it! I am grown up, now!
The list is endless...it can be over anything and about anything! It will surely catch your attention totally by chance. This is all so sudden!
These are the images of my nieces playing at home, in the garden
There will always be endless…competition, envy, tussle and yet that gentle care and sweetness alongside. That's the real beauty of this wonderful relationship.
Sometimes these ugly family feuds ( and sibling rivalries) continue for years over property etc. This is really sad state, but this happens.
However, times are changing... so are the families, more and more families are having 1 child policy for several socio-economic reasons and such single children are most often pampered by parents to a greater extent.
Pampering a child beyond a prescribed limit, is also not advisable!
Gone are the days, only fewer families have 3 or 4 children. Times are changing are so are Siblings and their upbringing.
Now, every kid, teen and older ones, want privacy in their own life and this is drastically and dramatically bringing changes within the family. Reasons better known to one and all!
The days of having fun, enjoyment and get together for all major or even minor reasons is gradually fading away.
Ironically, even kids and teens now want solitude and mobile phones!
Siblings, their behaviour, thought process and ideologies, are changing... and so is their Rivalry and Love.
Thank you,
@amitsharma
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This is my contribution in #reflections initiated by @tarazkp
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