Dont settle dor half solutions, just dont! Do what it takes to know what you want, following the below will help:
1- visualize it.
2- love having it.
3- do not have contradicting feelings towards having it.
4- tell youself "YOU ARE HAVING IT" not i will have it. To be motivated you need ur unconscious support, to have its support you need to use propoer verbs, your unconscious mind doesnt deal with past or future, just deals with the NOW.
5- go work for it.
6- enjoy your glory