Another special episode is here with a beautiful topic. Angry and Mad. Hahaha 馃槀 I started laughing when I saw the
Topic for this episode. I just thought of myself and believed that this episode of talking to me. Sometimes this is how I see the topics we treat here. I use it to speak to myself and I have seen great change in myself since I started participating in the hive learner's community context.
For this topic I will draw from the experiences that I have had in my life. Angry and mad is a normal thing for everyone. It doesn't matter who you are or what you do in this life. Somehow you must get angry with some certain things or people. The only thing that I have discovered is that we respond to getting angry and mad differently. Some get mad easily and some take time to get mad because of how God made us. I will be looking at my own way of responding to getting mad at things or people.
WHO AM I?
I am a lovable person who loves to be around people. This is what I discovered about myself. Because I love people around me, one will always see me around people who matters in the society.
I have discovered that most of the things that makes people angry don't get to me. Most times when I get angry it is just something very minor. When people get to hear about it, they feel like I shouldn't have gotten angry in the first place. But when it is a big offence it is easier for me to just wave it and keep moving. And maybe, just maybe that is why it takes time for me to get angry.
Getting angry for me takes time, but when it finally happens, even me I get scared because of the outcome. I am not the type that pretend that things are okay when they are not. I love saying things they very way they are. So that implies that I am a kind of plunt when it comes to expressing myself when I am hurt. When people hurt me I get to tell them the way I feel and something because it takes time for me to get angry, it also takes longer time for me to let that person into my heart again. I have discarded people in the past because of situations like this. When I keep enduring and it gets to the level that I can't take anymore I just let that person go away from myself. I don't say it, but the people will know that I am not available again. You know that kind of treatment that you give to someone who you don't want anymore. Some of them when they get tired of hanging around me, they will just go away. I don't do that because I have something against them, but because I don't want to give that person the opportunity to hurt me again.
Presently now I have someone who never knew that I can drop her and move on with my life as if we never existed.
HOW SOON?
Like I stated above, I don't get angry easily and also I take time to process it again and let go. O forget the person and if it is the person that I will move on with I will know and if I can't move on with such a fellow, I will let the person go.
The image belongs to me.
