Had to give this particular topic a deep though because it been a while since I offend or someone offend me or I even apologise to anyone, for someone that always spend 80% of his life indoor and not even trying to talk to anyone won't really have who to offend or apologise to. Somehow, I fall into the weird people category 🤣 and any small thing, I will always say sorry because I don't like problem and I'm not looking for one, there is this situation that happened back in the days that made me zero my mind on some certain things especially gifting in any relationship concerning female because those genders we don't know what they really want.
When it come to buying gift for ladies, I'm kinda poor in that aspect, not in terms of money but knowing what to buy exactly, I will rather send money and allow you get whatever you want than to get you something randomly, even at some point, I get to ask my female friends which kind of gift do they always like, just call me the clueless guy. So there was a day my sister was importing bags (dropshipping) and I kinda love these bags and because I wanted to be the romantic guy bla bla, I decided to just buy some for this particular girl and I was kind of surprised she love them so after a long while, I travelled home and my church uncle invited me and my friend to one of his church daughter new shop where she made handmade bags for sale and because we came, she gifted us one male handbag each but she majorly made females bags, so me and my friend check some out and decided to buy so we can appreciate her, I brought 3 bags which to me was beautiful with the hope of gifting my girl when she comes visiting.
Hmmmm. she came and as the romantic guy who I though I was, gifted the bags with happy mood, she asked from where and I just hint her the story and how nice they are, before I know it, instead of hearing the thank you word, it was story upon story, you know that kind of ("I don't like this) look, I even though maybe because I said they wear hand made, most bags are handmade actually, well she criticised the bags to the extend that I started feeling sorry for myself, my inner mind was just saying "wow, wow, who send me message" and I had to start apologising but the shocking part and what actually made me vex was that those bags got abandoned in my room untouched. Somehow I was like even if they are that bad, at least, one should appreciate and maybe gift them out even if you don't want it and not just abandon it, it felt like throwing it back at my face, it really affected me o and I just lock my mind to gifting before someone will make me start apologising for trying to be romantic again.
Well after a year that the bags sat down pretty in my wardrobe, a friend of mine saw it and asked me to dash her because she like them and send me pictures after rocking them
