As we grow older we keep appreciating seeing and appreciating life differently. The more you grow the more you understand that somethings in life is not necessary , some are not even worth dieing for. At a point in life we tend to prioritize some things over others.
Personally, I have come to prioritize my peace of mind over a whole lot of things, I tell people if the thing will cost my sanity and peace of mind , then I am out of the game. Over the years life has also taught me that, every battle is not won by noise or reacting violently, but there are things you quietly ignore and it will settle itself.
In life, I have come to realize that if you try to claim every right, that you will always have issues, "I know my right, I know my right , na em na cause hold up for road ". Life might not always play to your tune or happen the way you expected it to but what matters in such situations is always the experiences you have when life happens, because it will build you and make you stronger. This has made me realize, that in everything that we pass through in life, that there is always a lesson to learn from it, if we look well.
I have also learnt to understand and accept God and his doings 🤣😂. This point might be funny but it's always the truth. The thing is, there are some prayers that we pray and the answer will not always come as we expected, maybe they prayer was to get or achieve a certain thing, but God knew that for you to achieve that that particular thing that something must go, now when this thing is gone, you might end up crying or asking God so many questions not knowing that , that is your prayers being answered. So I have come to understand God's doing in aspects like this.