...so is jealousy a sign of love or coming from the grounds of insecurity. Well , It's a nice and lovely topic, and I will tackle it from two side.
Now, let's go into the relationship aspect. Ladies need attention and will always complain if you don't give them your full attention. I ones had a friend who use to complain so much that I don't really give her all my time , she need my 100 percent attention, but the truth is no matter how much you love someone , you can always give him or her your attention but you can't give 100 percent, especially if you are someone that is still trying to find your feet just to survive and this need a serious understanding. So after all her complains I calmly explain things to her, but at some point she was not always okay with the explanation. She had the time because her work as at then gave her good time, but mine and other activities did not. I tried my best. Now at that point there was no much jealousy, because they were things that she did and I will quietly ignore or tell her not to try it again. To me there was no time for much argument is or policing, I just hoped that every matured human being should understand life.
So not quite long , the table turned, I was a bit free with some projects that I had at hand as at then, and I understood my new work environment, so I was able balance everything perfectly. And this time around she had a new work and the work took her time much, and at that point I had enough time to always check up on everything that she did as she requested. But all of a sudden she started complaining that I was jealous and that I was policing her too much. The day she made this statement, I didn't know when I bursted into laughter and she was supprise and asked why I was laughing about such a serious matter. I now had to take her mind back .
Now the truth is, jealousy is part of love , but too much of jealousy is detrimental because it can lead to doing what you were not supposed to do in normal situation.
Again, some jealousy arise as a result of the feeling of insecurity. So a little jealousy is necessary and healthy in a relationship, because that's what most people see as love. So in summary everything should be in moderation.