I was just speaking to my nice few hours ago and I told her life is just a mystery, the older you get the more you understand things clearly and differently, as a matter of fact, as kids growing up our parents were the ones telling us everything need to know, what to do and what not, stay out of this and that, but in reality as we grow, we began to develop our own mindset, to decide and choose which of those things are necessary to us, along the line we discover learn and unlearn most of what we know now.
I am particularly glad I came across this prompt by 
I am at this point in my life that it seems very obvious that I am realizing a whole lot differently about my life, for the first time it's like my life is x rayed before my every eyes to see all the things i have done and how I should have done better, the missed gaps and opportunities, this things really made me pause and sober reflect.
there are lots of questions in my heart about almost everything that is going on in my life and about life in general, most of them are rhetorical cause no one will answer them, I have made up my mind trusting God that everything will align perfectly well in it's time..
I started coming up with nuggets as results of my curiosity, often i get insight into life from a bird's eye view stand point one of them being this, which is my own true life lesson.
No one was born a genuis, everyone and everything you see began from the point of discovery and continuous improvement
This is what I do often, almost on a daily basis, I receive insights, putring together true life lessons as i discover them on a daily basis about matters of life from an organic stand point, these life lessons are divinely inspired not merely from experience but from foresight.
as I grow older I realize better who I am, what I stand for, my becoming, my believes, how my principles had shaped me into a better version of myself, looking back at my life now, my past is just filled with numerous lessons, what i would have done better instead, the point is i am knowing better. so now instead of just regrets I am incorporating those life lessons into what I do now
they say experience is the best teacher but allowing that to always remain the reality will only mean that you will never come to the full knowledge of who you are and to function in your full capacity, however to break out will only mean that you build your life around basic principles that is able to sustain you at a level.
sometimes ago I came across this scripture and it touched me so hard, it really looked like my life,
Always learning but never coming to the understanding of the truth, 2Timothy 3:7
always learning will be destructive to a person because life is not forever, time is running and so it's really important to come to a point of realization of what works and what does not and building legacy based on that understanding and living happily there after.
life's lessons are infinite but your life is not, at some point life will require that you now began to teach others of your mistakes and lessons not to continue learning at that point.