Arguement is one common habits in the society which is well known to Many of us, but...Does arguments really have benefits? I have personally witnessed different occasions whereby a group of people are having an arguement about something, arguing here and there as if that particular thing is worth it. Sometimes, these arguments end up in quarrelling, and other times the arguments may result in a fight between two or more people.
And to me personally, I wonder why people argue so much. Sometimes I wonder why arguments are taken so seriously.
As for me, I don't like arguing much about anything. For example, if I say this is B from my own perspective, and someone else says it is A, I don't like arguing much to prove whether that is truly B or not. So if the person is okay with what he or she says and understands, then so be it. Unless it is something that has to do with my personality or something that I own. Only then will I speak for myself because I won't allow anyone to decide what happens to me.
But if it has to do with anything else that doesn't belong to me or has nothing to do with me, then that arguement seems meaningless to me.
My workplace is very close to a viewing hall where people watch live football matches. And I've witnessed countless times people coming out of the viewing hall arguing about a player... the one who played well and the one who didn't play well. Sometimes the arguement will be about different fans. For example, Manchester United and Arsenal. So anytime Manchester United and Arsenal play, and one team wins, the other team's fans will be frowning while the winning team's fans will be jubilating.
Before you know what is happening, it will result in an arguement, from an arguement to a quarrel, and from a quarrel sometimes it gets into a real serious fight.
So, you can see what arguments can lead to. And that is why I don't believe that arguments can change anything or are even worth taking very seriously, because I see no benefit in them.
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