In our own way, we all want to be looked up to by others. Even if it is just our brother, sister, child or friend. To know that we are a role model and inspiration to other person(s) is a great feeling. But it can be hard to know if someone is just flattering you or seriously looking up to you. It is important to learn to separate genuine admiration from flattery, so here are 10 indisputable signs that will tell you for sure if someone looks up to you.
1 - They want to get involved in the issues that matter to you
Anything that is close to you is important to them, from rescuing stray animals to petitions.
Regardless of how specific and intense your passions are, the person who looks up to you takes a huge interest in them. They want to learn more about you, get involved in your cause, and consider a career like yours.
2 - They imitate your behaviour and your beliefs
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Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. When someone looks up to you, they imitate your behavior and your beliefs They want to be like you.
Think about when you looked up to your favourite athlete as a child. You wanted to play the same sport, you wanted to talk the same way they did, you shared their world view.
3 - They model their personal style on you
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The next undeniable sign that someone looks up to you is when they try to copy the fashion you represent.
Of course, it is fair to ask how important clothes and accessories are in this respect. But when it comes to the people we look up to, whether they are celebrities or just our older siblings, the way they dress and the accessories they wear mean a lot.
From ripped jeans to expensive glasses, whoever looks up to you will tend to copy everything. It is a sign that they look up to you and want to be more like you.
4 - They care about what amuses you
They want to know what you do, what moves you, why it moves you and what you like about it. They want to watch the same shows, listen to the same music as you, do the same things that entertain them as you, and preferably do them with you.
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5 - They always have time for you
This is the clearest and most unmistakable sign that someone looks up to you. They make time for you.
People we look up to tend to take the first place in our lives. Giving your time to someone means you respect and look up to them. Those who admire you will find a way to be a part of your life and spend time with you.
6 - People talk positively about you to others
When you care about someone, you say good things about them to people you know.
And when someone looks up to you, they speak positively and professionally about you to all people. This includes your personal and business environment.
The ability to speak positively about someone is a much bigger thing than many people think. Getting a good or bad reputation is no accident: it is a collection of what people say about you when you're not around, including colleagues, boss, family, friends and your partner.
7 - They listen to your advice and what you say
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When someone looks up to you, they like to hear how you see a situation or issue because they respect your life experiences and philosophy.
8 - They introduce you to other like-minded people
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Someone who admires you usually makes a great connection.
They will find you others who think and act like you.
Because they look up to you, they want to bless you with new relationships and show you that you are important to them. A person who looks up to you can be a great bridge for you to engage in more activities that give you a social atmosphere and a sociable vibe.
9 - They are interested in your spiritual and religious views
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Someone who looks up to you is also deeply interested in what is important to you in religion and they want to know your soul. They are not content to know and admire your surface qualities. They want to go deeper.
10 - They help you even when it is uncomfortable and difficult
Even good friends will run away at the last minute when something gets difficult. But, the person who really looks up to you will be there to help, even when it is uncomfortable or difficult.
Whether it is fixing a broken window or a trip you need to take, someone who looks up to you will not hold you back. They will enjoy the opportunity to be there and help their role model. And in return, they expect nothing in return.
Being a role model is not easy. None of us is perfect, but being a role model can inspire you to be someone's hope. Being a genuine and helpful role model does not mean you are flawless and have good PR.
It is about adding more to someone else's life at the end of the day. Of course, that is easier said than done, but it is definitely worthwhile and achievable if you focus on the impact your words and actions have on those around you.