Respect
We will discuss about respect today in detail as it feature in marriages and businesses (customer care and sales)
Let me start with marriage.
Men alway talking about how respect is important to them from their partner but hardly know why they dnt easily earn it but demand it from their partner.
Let give instant with business to buttress the point I want to men to focus on if they want to earn and command respect of their partner. You can command respect you dnt earn but can as well earn respect you dnt command and you and command and earn respect.
One rich man dress dirty with pure water in bag to an auto shop to price a luxury car but the instant the sales person saw him approaching and as much as touching the car,she embarrassed the man tell him he doesn't look like what his trying to price and touch that he must leave the auto shop another sales talked nasty that how can he hold a pure water instead of can water to match the car his walking to price and touch.
The man didn't talk but they never noticed the gold ring on his finger that could have signal something to them.they kept on insulting the man who kept silent at their insult who will bail the rich man from the insult.
Lesson from this tale that reflect in marriages then we reflect on the business lesson of the tale.
Now for marriage.
Most men dnt like being to close familiar with their partners because of the saying that familiarity breeds disrespect. Tell me how can someone know the level of respect to give to something they dnt have knowledge about. That brings us to comparison between a talkative and quiet partner.
I respect talkative because our of the content of the depth of the heart of man the bible said is desperately wicked the mouth speaks. Even if the person is saying rubbish there is sense in every rubbish but at least you know they talk rubbish and you respect them for being honest that they know only rubbish and are willing to start learning to make sense from talking rubbish.
Remember the point is knowledge. What you know is the measure of respect you give to it what you dnt know you dnt know how to measure what to attribute to it.
Do you know why communication is studied in school because there are way to communicate the same thing and you get different result. Two person might be saying the same thing but getting different result because communication is managed there is away to say something that is bad and everyone run away and there is a way to say something bad and same people who ran away will turn back that is communication management.
Same communication different result.
Now back to respect.when a man wants respect and his not being open to receive what his asking for it will be difficult for the partner to know how or what to respect about and in him.
Silence is evil and sign of emptiness is not gold like it's expressed. Just look at that tale of a rich man and how silence turned gold into insult panorama even the gold ring could have sold him out.
If you live with a silent partner honestly you live with a deep evil yet to unfold you know how to attribute a deserving respect but you live with and open friendly partner you know exactly how to respect them for what comes out of them give you knowledge of how to respect them.
When you talk what is inside is revealed and it either command and earn you respect or dnt but when you are silent what is what is inside is unknown and what is unknown signals of danger and it's called suspense in movies suspense is dangerous because it's like force of gravity it's either up or down you dnt know which way it will go and that is dangerous . And what do people do when they feel endangered they scare away like a person confronted by a lion.
Why do business do kyc,they want to know their customer to know the equal amount of respect due to them based on what they invest in your business in purchases they call it benefit.
When you hear special plan (benefit/respect )by telecom to certain individual it because of their level of investment in their business.
So the next time you demand respect from your partner make sure they have your KYC because you level of input in you partners life is the level of respect you earn and command.
Stop commanding respect and earn and command it at the same time the key is your KYC give it to your partner stop that silent mode you appear like a lion to them and luons scare so stop scaring people and start earning and commanding what you you deserve give KYC. You content is your respect. Silence is empty no longer gold of 19 century in 21 century silence is empty not gold. Your KYC is your respect. Dnt be afraid to let people know who are by your content. Remember two people can communicate the same thing with different result. The key is how you manage the communication.
A good marketer is know in their ability to market bad image and the way to do that is either to advice for improvement or featuring only the good side of a bad product and keep the bad side away.
Dnt let people respect you from fear but from your content and content is not silence silence communicate fears.
The unknown is the most feared stop commanding fear earn and command respect
