Healing from Broken Love is moving away from the pain, not moving like it never happened. But that you choose not to let it interrupt your future and hinder your chances of getting to love again. Healing doesn't mean you should brush it off, it means taking time to reflect the hurt, that was caused and then choose to address it .so you can move to the next phase of life,lightly.
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One of the feelings that could possibly spring up from a bad heartbreak is Resentment.
Resentment is such a strong emotion you'd be unaware of how much of it you're passing on to others around you who still cares. And maybe reflect it in a new relationship. You feel so much hatred for the hurt you've had to experience and you're just a walking bag of strong hurt. You start to wonder why you couldn't experience a happy life. It's because you suffered so much from the past it eats you deep and leaves great wound in your heart.
But in moments like this you have to let it go, because there's a saying that If you hold someone in your heart, you also hold yourself too.
And it's so real and true because you get to experience a lot of bitterness within you. Which might affect your dealings in society.
But all that is important is to choose to grow and grow effectively, it simply has to make you feel free , when you grow and move on from the hurt . Yes there could be old wounds that leaves scars to remind you, but it's a symbol of how you've done well for yourself by not letting hate break you or turn you into an Alien.
Healing is not rushed. Some days you鈥檒l feel free, other days memories will knock loudly. Be patient with yourself. You are unlearning pain and relearning peace. And that, in itself, is a beautiful kind of courage.
So cheers 馃 to choosing peace and winning over the world of hate and past love that tried to break you.
