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If you are still waiting for society to give you the opportunity to work on yourself and thrive, do yourself a favour and stop the dream.
The world doesn't care about you living up to your potential. You will be taken advantage of and spend your whole life on the trajectory that some other people choose for you.
As long as you don't show up some backbone, set a strong boundaries and demonstrate true initiative when it comes to what you want and how to get there. You need a life of direction, a life of competence, a life that really pushes you to your goals.