Most of you are still unaware that there are essentially two types of orgasm. Explosive orgasms are when you come. Explosive orgasms are very common, so let's talk about them first. Virtually all men and many women have experienced them. They are defined by a sudden discharge of accumulated sexual tension accompanied by a brief, intoxicating rush of pleasure. Unfortunately, male sexuality has been incorrectly focused on this type of orgasm for way too long. Let me explain! You see, explosive orgasms have a downside that is rarely spoken of. Men in particular suffer from a loss of vital life-force energy each time they come. This is not generally the case with women. It should be noted that men only experience pleasure until they come. Thereafter, men enter a post-ejaculation crash. They have short-circuited the system. They lose their erection. They lose sexual desire. Some men even lose immediate interest in their partner after coming. In worst case scenarios they become emotionally withdrawn, irritable, moody and indifferent. I've been told that some men even get dressed and leave their partner immediately after coming. All these problems are all due to energy loss. Happily, by learning how to have implosive orgasms all these problems can be avoided.
Implosive orgasms are created by avoiding the urge to come. They are much more joyful and profound than explosive orgasms since they involve the whole body, not just the genitals. Every cell becomes orgasmic, not just the genitals. However, implosive orgasms require a more advanced set of bedroom skills. To experience them you must master the ability to relax into high states of arousal, for extended periods, without coming until sexual ecstasy is attained. For men this means mastering ejaculation control. The system must stay up and running to give the sexual energy a chance to build. Seminal retention gives a man the ability to hover for an extended period in the small, ecstatic space just before his genital release would occur. This tiny gap is located precisely between peak arousal and genital release. With practice, this tiny gap when entered thoughtfully with keen awareness and restraint can be savored and extended for maximum sexual pleasure. In fact, the ecstatic nature of an implosive orgasm may become so intense that it has been known to trigger altered states of consciousness, or what has been known as mystical, or spiritual sex. An enlightened experience like this may not last, but it cannot ever be forgotten. Implosive orgasms are the sexual path to higher consciousness. There is a dynamic connection between sex and spirit, but not just any sex will do. It must be ecstatic sex and this implies mastering the art of producing implosive orgasms.