We often think: "Why do I have all this sh*t??". And sometimes it's really a sea problems, worries and cares that covers us every day.
But the only right thing we can do to stop it - to seek for the source of it INSIDE of us.
Many people or relatives and friends can offend us every day, but the more resentment we feel, the more it hurts US, not them.
Our soul cries, we don't listen to it, we think again and again about the offender, and how much he hurted us. We are angry, depressive or agressive. All these feelings destroy only US...
We need to forgive everyone who hurt us, even if it seems that what they have done is impossible to forgive.
Forgive them, not because they deserve to be forgiven, but because you don’t want to suffer anymore and endure this pain every time you remember how you were hurted.
And it doesn't matter how and when exactly they offended you - forgive them, because you don't want to get sick further. Forgiveness is essential for your own spiritual healing.
You forgive because you have compassion for yourself. Forgiveness is an act of self-love.
We LOSE ENERGY and life power if we keep our resentments long.
They "'eat" us inside every day, and we feel tired, lost, depressive, sad, weak.
Resentments hurt our own integrity and let our life energy go away...
Forgiveness is NOT for weak persons, they are for STRONG ones, because not all people are able to forgive.
Forgiveness requires huge inner power.
But giving it, we get it back much more.
I'm 33, and I understood this wisdom not long ago. But It was great deep relief. Like a new breath.
I have forgiven ALL offenders in my life. I wish them all to be happy and understand these simple but so complicated things that help us to grow and develop spiritually.