How Soon Will You Be Getting Married?
In a bid to know about relationships or for reasons best known to many young people out there, they venture into relationships with the hope of getting married someday when they're probably not sure of its possibility. But unfortunately, they met what they never bargained for.
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Going into a relationship is not a crime. Trust me, you need the company of those who would wake the giant in you, those who would challenge you into success and not those who would destroy you.
Going into a relationship not leading into marriage will set you up for emotional intimacy
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Men and women are emotional creatures. One of the activities that predates sexual intimacy is emotional intimacy. Except in rape cases, you cannot copulate with someone you're not attracted to. And why should you set yourself up emotionally and become a victim of what you could have avoided?
Most relationship that ended in heart break, premarital sex or sexual immoralities was as a result of emotional intimacy. There's no point creating emotional hang ups when you do not see yourself building a life together.
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It takes wisdom to draw the boundaries or even opt out of a relationship when you do not need one at the moment. Many have ended up being friendzone having thought they'll be together someday. Make your intentions known so that you won't nurse emotional pain later.
Once you've been emotionally attached it'll affect your ability to make the right decision
It's easy to escape a ditch than to seek for means of getting out of it.
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Confusion comes when you have been entangled in a thing and a part of you is outside of it. It's very easy to quit a relationship when you haven't been trapped in it. When you hear people say, "I love him but..." or "I love her but I don't know if I should leave her. This is the hallmark of indecision.
When you're not emotionally involved in a relationship, your sense of reasoning won't be clouded. You'd be able to separate love from lust and you'd know whether they are suitable for you or unsuitable. If you know that you're not ready for a relationship, it's wisdom not to enter into one so that your indecision won't lead you into making the wrong decision in life
Emotional intimacy is the genesis of all sexual immoralities or premarital sex. Ask those who were victims of relationship issues, it all started from the emotional intimacy they once shared and ladies are always at the receiving end.
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You can avoid sexual sins when you avoid emotional intimacy
Only you can tell yourself the truth by asking this question again: Do I need a relationship that's not certain it would lead to marriage now?
However, the above list can be overruled by divine arrangement. Let God rule the affairs of your life rather than work out things to your disfavor.
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If you can follow these tips, you'll save yourself from being exposed to the consequences of going into a relationship that's not leading to marriage.