Ketika Satu Grup Menertawakanmu (When a group laughs at you)

Kalau satu grup ketawa buat menjatuhkan kamu, jangan balas dengan emosi. Balaslah dengan satu kalimat ini dan lihatlah siapa yang jadi canggung.

Dijadikan bahan lelucon di depan banyak orang adalah salah satu tekanan sosial paling kuat. Dan kebanyakan orang kalah dalam moment ini.

Mereka akan ketawa canggung, diam dan merunduk, atau marah. Masalahnya semua reaksi itu menunjukkan kamu terpancing.

Dan saat kamu terlihat terpancing satu grup tersebut tahu satu hal: mereka berhasil menjatuhkanmu.

Kalau kamu mau membalikan situasi, jangan bereaksi seperti target. Bertindaklah seperti pengamat.

Saat tertawa dimulai: Jangan alihkan pandangan, tataplah langsung orang yang memulai. Tanpa marah, tanpa tersenyum, hanya tatapan datar yang dingin. Tahan selama dua sampai tiga detik.

Lalu katakan satu kalimat ini: " Gue gak ngerti...... Coba jelasin, lucunya dimana?"

Di titik itu, semuanya berubah. Mereka harus menjelaskan "lucu-nya". Dan saat dijelaskan, "Humornya Mati."

Perhatian satu grup berpindah. Dari kamu ke dia yang mulai. Sekarang dia yang terlihat canggung.

Ingat ini: Kamu bukan target, kecuali kami bertindak seperti target.

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If a group laughs to bring you down, don't respond with emotion. Reply with this one sentence and see who gets awkward.

Being made the butt of jokes in front of many people is one of the strongest social pressures. And most people lose in this moment.

They will laugh awkwardly, be silent and duck, or get angry. The problem is that all these reactions show that you were provoked.

And when you look like you're hooked a group knows one thing: they've got you down.

If you want to turn the situation around, don't react like a target. Act like an observer.

When the laughing starts: Don't look away, look directly at the person who started it. No anger, no smile, just a cold, flat stare. Hold for two to three seconds.

Then say this one sentence: "I don't understand...... Try to explain, where's the funny thing?"

At that point, everything changed. They had to explain the "cuteness." And when explained, "The Humor Is Dead."

One group's attention shifted. From you to him who started. Now he looks awkward.

Remember this: You are not a target, unless we act like one.

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This article written in Bahasa Indonesia and translated into English by Google Translate.