Not everyone is comfortable with talking. There are certain type of people who happens to talk a lot. I met a person, in my new location, and interestingly he keeps on calling me now and then just to talk. He is like that only and loces talking. I have seen him always busy over the phone talking with someone. For once I thought it was me, but he is like a social person who happens to love talking on different matters to make new connection and interaction. Even now when I am at my home, he keeps calling me to talk on all topic, he has insight about sports, politics, society bla..bla. Last evening we had a normal olconcersation for an hour. And in most part he used to talk...it makes me to feel am I normal?
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Talking is an Art. People talk to communicate their thoughts, feelings, and information to others. It is a fundamental aspect of human interaction, allowing us to express ourselves, learn from others, and navigate social situations. Talking helps create and maintain relationships by sharing personal experiences, building trust, and showing interest in others. For him having so vast topic to talk is what amazes me. He is an extrovert character who know how to keep people engage. When it comes to me, I even fail to keep a track with him in talking. After a certain time, my talk limits only to "yes" "no" hmm... etc. These words are indication that the other person has lost interest but that person does not want to stop. I had to hand up the phone, calling some emergency.
I am an introvert, who does not talk unnecessary. I do jotbhave topics to talk. I like to keep silent, but in opposite these extrovert keeps their momentum going. Extroverts tend to talk a lot because they gain energy from social interaction, meaning that talking and engaging with others is a way for them to feel energized and stimulated, unlike introverts who might need more quiet time to recharge. I have noticed this to him. As said, it is not only me who keep him engage, but he has his other source to talk. I do not want neglect him, but sometime his l3ngthy is kind of irritating. I began receving his calls on investment matters but now that little conversation turned into more personal and social talk. It is not possible to ignore this kind of person.
These extroverts often have high social confidence, making them comfortable expressing themselves openly and readily joining conversations. You can find them everywhere. Be it morning tea at corner of the road or at the park during evening game or while doing a morning walk. These kind of people never feel remorse of any kind. They keep on entertaining and in process making a social connection. This person has a long lost of known people in the locality. He knew most of the people. But for introvert finding such connection is hard. I am happy to have a limited contacts. Buy sometimes I feel that talking to these friendly extrovert might make me one of them in due time.
The main thing is that not to makes them a habit of life. Else we gonna miss them.
In good faith - Peace!!
