🥀 The greatest killer of your Life's most incredible experiences is the 'shouldn'ts' of other people.
Their limitations thrown over you like a heavy and dark net will suffocate your aliveness which expands when the inspiration drops in. Their 'shouldn't' will totally paralyze you and destroy every seed of your newly born creation if you let them cover your be-ing with their fears.
When we run to the small people with our great ideas, plans, desires, and feelings of
“Yes, I want this, I can do, be or have this”
we are confronting their weaknesses, their lack of self-worth, self-love, self-expression, and they don't like that.
They immediately reach into their limited minds, consult their fears, their old patterns, and give you this very convincing “you shouldn't”.
And as well behaved as you are, you remember your own smallness and just shut off the divine flow which was pouring gold all over you.
You bow your head and push all of your dreams aside.
To fit in.
To be validated.
To be loved.
🥀 But the kind of Love you long for will never come from that place. Because that's the place of lack.
Full of conditions. And even if you try to meet all of these conditions, a new one will arise as you go.
And you will be getting exhausted each step of the journey.
Trying to please everyone but yourself.
Hoping for approval and validation of your sacrifice. Which will never come.
Because no one can feel the depths of your sacrifices but you.
No one ever will validate it and love you for it.
They might even throw it to the ground, step on it, spit on it. Make you feel guilty about you ever having hopes, desiring more for this experience of Life.
It's only up to you to go for what you want.
Be devoted to loving guidance.
Walk your own path confidently, invincibly, determined.
If you truly feel it in your heart, you don't need anyone's approval. They don't even need to agree with your choices.
🥀 This Life was given to you to experience, express, and expand. This Life is a divine creation and your only responsibility is to live it to the fullest. It doesn't mean you don't care for others or their feelings,
but it means you don't let others take away what's there for you either. In the end, we all have the same rights and possibilities. If you live your Life unapologetically guided by Love you will inspire others to do the same.
This is the greatest gift you can give them. When you show them how to be truly free you enable them to choose the same.
There is no greater Love than Love that gifts with freedom. Freedom to be, have and experience whatever your heart desires for this lifetime. When you follow your Soul's guidance, you can never go the wrong way. But you might need to walk with other people, who are going in the same direction. People who don't feel confronted by your greatness.
People who will celebrate every step of the way your Love for life with you.
~Nika 🥀