Then the Lord cause man to go into a deep sleep and took of his rib, Gen 2 vs 21 - 22.
This Bible verses expressed how God took a rib from man to make a woman, to make him a help mate, a wife or a companion. This show that God's ideology in the creation of woman was to help, to assist to support the man
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When he took the man's rib, to form a woman, it meant he was in full support of marriage. Not brother I done come, not I got pregnant, not I love him, but I a man going to his wife's family rightfully taking her hand in marriage, which means a marital rite has been paid.
I come to a conclusion from this, that there's a woman for every man, so not every woman or any woman is meant for a man. You must know which was made from your rib. Not marrying who was made from a rib, but your rib. You shouldn't marry just anybody.
How to know your rib.
1. There must be an alignment to your God given vision.
2. There must support in all endeavors. Not in doing wrong ooh, but in doing right. Emotionally, psychologically, spiritually am every way.
3. She will always respect your values.
4. You both have to understand each other. When there's understanding, communication will not be a problem.
In conclusion: as we also talk about a man so is a woman too. Always remember as a woman that your not only looking for the man who ribs was removed to make you.
Your also looking for a husband. A husbandman cultivate and grow crops, so if his a husband indeed, he would do anything possible to build, elevate, support and respect his woman no matter what.
A father to both yourself and your children, he becomes your father once he married you, and remember; he'll be your children's father. Look for whom you would be proud to show your children.
And finally your also looking for a friend, one who would not just be honest, but genuinely honest and supportive. A hand to hold to, when all seem void or empty. One to tell sweet and bitter moments, one you can gossip with, one you can be open with and not get judged, one who would tell you truth no matter what. Be wise as you choose.
