No woman one earth pray to end up a widow at a prime of life,when this happens,what can a woman do?
As a young couple such thought never crossed our minds that sooner or later either of us could die before becoming grandparents.
Before 10th july,2006,when I suddenly became one,I used to feel for young ladies who lost their husbands,I used to wonder how they coped with life,I only had a vague idea of how difficult but could not imagine how rough the road was until I experienced it.
It was unexpected,He was not sick,it was a terrible blow.After the lord God,he was the centre of my life,everything revolved around him,he was loving,caring and understanding.
He was a pillar in our local church branch,he took care of the family,never shared the household budget nor concerns himself with how much I earn.you can now now imagine what great vaccum he left and how difficult for it to be filled.but then it happened.My first reach was that all was lost.
Questions came rapidly;how do I cope alone?how do I raise the children?their school fees etc
I was still very young,in My mid-thirties,and here I was suddenly Aline! I thought it was the end of the world,but I give God the glory,the writer of destiny.it is true that he is the husband of the widow and father to the fatherless
Life was never easy.
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