Everyone has their own special features.
I used to be very shy when I was ugly. I was not good at self-pity, pessimistic when poor. I've been very upset with my personality. And I know I need to change. I know I have good points. At least I work hard and listen.
Let's start with what we have, instead of what we do not have. The happiness of others you cannot keep watching. Do not worry about things that are not yours. Find the right one for you. The thing you are most comfortable with is what you need
One can not live too long when separated from the community. But it is not necessary to follow all the rules there. Your decision will determine the future. Fly high, fly away - You decide yourself