Many of the people you admire for their good character also have the flip side of them which they have consciously chosen not to flaunt. As a matter of fact, as long as we are still humans, there is a measure of the flip side even in the best of them all. In the same way, there is still a good side that has been locked up in the worst of them all - it is only as the individual have chosen to either show their good side or their bad side.
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Always have it in mind that humans are still very far from attaining the state of perfection and as such, continuous work must be put in place to see ourselves better. The more you work to feed your good side, the more your dark side gets leaner. This is just the analogy of light and darkness - the increase in the intensity of light will automatically decrease the appearance of darkness.
Without recourse to your background or your social status, focusing more on the good side of yourself is only a matter of choice and not a gift. We always appreciate the good side in people and hope to see more of it but what about ourselves? We can actually be what we appreciate in others.
Believe me, no one likes to be treated rudely or badly. If you know that being rude is bad, then it is wisdom to condition your mind to shun every appearance of rudeness. You do not have to hide under the guise of "I am being real" to treat people with gross rudeness. Even if you have a natural tendency to be rude, you can tame yourself and fake some goodness. Trust me, after a while of faking it, you will be surprised how it will become real.
Always remember that you are absolutely accountable and responsible for the actions you exhibit and do not be quick to think it is your personality or blame it on your background. The world is already passing through intense depravity and will not welcome the nastiness of a rude character, so try to change.
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