Hello friends! Bullying and harassment someone without any reason is a brutal culture of our society. It is an unethical practice of some people. I think bullying in online or physical both are bad. Because it hits on mind and the victim felt very shy and helpless. A person who belongs to a well-educated family can never bully others. Bullying hampers the victims nomal life. In our society we often see many types of bullying.
When I was in school I saw there was some boys and girls were little more fat than others. They were often victims of bullying. Some students were black. They were also victims of bullying. Bullying is one kind of racism. A person who bullies others is nothing but a shameless person. Sometimes there is a group in every sectors who used to do this. Bullying is those words by which one attack others to insult them. It is done for humiliate others.
When I was in school and college I was also a victim of bullying. I was very simple and took everyone as my friend. But some boys bulied me for my simplicity. They considered me as a foolish and some times called me Bolda as a bullying word. I felt very angry and sometimes I physically attacked them to protest them. In my college hostel every member of our flat bullied me. Even my roommate and best friend Nahid also called me Bolda.
Even at present time when I talk with him he called me Bolda but this time is for fun not for bullying. A boy named vicky first bullied me in the hostel. One of my flatmate Sanchay sometimes protest against him but Vicky didn’t change. I was too much aggressive with him for his bullying, sometimes I thought if I would break his leg it would be a great mental peace for me. I went to a deep depression. I was afraid of Vicky all time. As I was physically weak I can't win after fighting with him. Luckily Vicky left our college as he couldn’t take the pressure of study from the college.
After a few day's leaving the hostel Vicky again came to meet with us but this time he didn’t bully me. The bullying culture is practiced among the students most. They are not too matured to understand others mental pain. I sometimes read some news that some victims shot and killed his classmates for their bullying attack. Specially the introverts can't tolerate bullying at all. The extroverts generally remain safe from bullying attack because of their courage for protesting.
Some time some mental patients or mad also become victims of bullying attack by children. Cyber bullying is also very harmful. Sometimes it is more harmful than physically bullying. When someone bullied physically that is seen by a few people but if it is done in online it could be seen by millions of people. It will effect the victim more than physically harassment. So I think it is our duty to stop bullying by increasing social movement.
Specially women are bullied physically and in online media mostly. It is high time we raised our voice to stop this. We should try to change the outlook about girls in our society. Government also should take proper steps to stop physical and cyber bullying for all and soecially for the women. Every educational institutions should teach their students to develop a better mindset and thinking.
