Hi friends! I don’t like to put pressure on myself at all. But sometimes I have to take pressure also. It is not necessary to take pressure all time. Only for the serious works or in a serious situation a pressure is automatically created on us. In different ages we feel pressure for different reasons. In student life there was a pressure for homework. I remember that every day a lot f homework were geven us. It was a great pressure for us.
I was weak in math. I felt an extra pressure for it. Everyday I got an extra mental pressure in schiol and in my home. My uncle (mother's brother) taught me math when I was in kindergarten. It was rare to pass a day when he didn’t slapped me at the time of practice mathematics. Since I was weak in math and it was already a pressure for me, in my home it was two time more pressure for me. I suffered a long for this. My uncles extra pressure hamperd my normal way of thinking. It made me mentally weak and sick. My family also gave pressure on me fir a good result. But My memory was not too sharp and for their pressure it gradually became low. I passed my student life in full of pressure. The pressure they had given upon me I took more than that because I was too much afraid of them. It pushed me back from my normal thinking level.
When I become a college student I myself took pressure on me. Because I was more matured than my school life. I was live in a hostel where no one of my family members was to put pressure on me. So it was a good chance for me to think independently. I planned my self and tried to study well. Though some exam results were not good but as no one gave pressure on me , I was in a full mental peace and it helped me to recover my results. I soon changed my routine and tried to study hard for making a good result.
From my childhood My expectation was I would be a teacher in future. As I got a lot of pressure by my teachers and family I had a dream that I would teach my students in a way where that they would never feel any pressure.
I try to do everything in a well planned way without. If Sometimes happenens anything that I never expected before that hampers my plan. But I never give up. I try to gain my success. Sometimes I have to too hard on myself because nothing can be achived without working hard. But it is not essential to take pressure for every thing. Only for the most important achievement for my life I am ready and do hard work and will take pressure on me.
I think if anyone want to achive something special for his career he might feel pressure on him and it is a normal things. But take pressure in all sphere of life is not necessary.
