No one came into life with a manual,no one actually knows "how to live". I like to see us as creatures put in an unfamiliar place and we're all just trying to figure out our way.
Meanwhile, you'll bump into people and people would bump into you. Some of these people would politely apologize for the collision and the scratch, if any and you can even go along with becoming acquainted or befriending, some of these people would grumpily mutter an apology and walk off,some of these people would huskily walk away without looking your way.
Also, you could be falter from the collision and all your morals and ideologies goes hurling into the air. Now, some of these people would quickly wave an apology and leave you on the ground, some would apologetically help you up, some would even go as far as picking the stuffs that fell and some,who I believe are the most lost people, would walk away without a flinch.
Now, you can stay on the ground, swearing and cursing them out, making a spectacle of the mess or you can pick and clean yourself up,gather all the valuables you spilled and keep in mind that while you should be more careful, it's more about them than you because we tend to blame ourselves for others misbehavior or toxicity, it's on them.
The closure won't always come,there won't always be a retrospect but your healing shouldn't be dependent on an apology or a explanation and you trying to find your way too shouldn't be about bumping into people and walking off without an apology because someone did it to you just fine. Monsters do make monsters. We get obsessed with Clairvoyance, even try to meticulously place our life in order but truth is,we are at the mercy of the universe and what is within our space of influence is not so substantial after all.
With that being said,it is easier to wade through life when you know that everyone's a little lost but then, get out of the way as often as you can.
