One interesting thing about life is how multiple realities are possible, and how one change or course of action can alter multiple realities at once.
Mistakes and wrong choices as well as being unlucky are some of the things that alters realities in life and regrets follows.
What we don't understand is that there are forks and events on the road to every destination we envisage in life.
Sometimes it seems or appears very simple, but we forget the roles of unforseen circumstances in the possible realities We're trying to birth. There is no certain reality in life, this is why millions of dreams are dying everyday.
Dreams are different from realities because they're perceived in the mind, but takes a lot to birth into reality. Realities are more plausible, more likely to happen and are mostly present or likelier with all the choices we make in life.
This doesn't mean people shouldn't dare to dream, the Idea is that people should be cautious well enough to understand that anything can go wrong and that they cannot afford to mess up or make too many wrong choices.
For example, when two people start out equally in life, their destination will differ based on the series of events they encounter on the way.
Two people cannot be equally lucked, one person will definitely have it better than the other and that's just how life is. People cannot control luck all the time, even though you're extremely prepared.
The fact that life doesn't have a streamlined or well-known way of working is the reason why there are no manuals. We'd be having gurus, self acclaimed masters of the universe selling courses on how to perfect life without a single mistake.
People would be teaching others how to deal with unforeseen circumstances, how to predict them or how to even conquer them. Unfortunately no one has it all figured out, and why no guru is selling courses on how to do life.
If there was a shortcut to do life, I'm sure the rich will hold onto it just to prevent dilution.
The rich, influential and wealthy are the biggest problems of life and people. They'll never be Willing to let go of such hack or manual if they have it, or even prefer to sell that to the highest bidder.
So life is probably better of this way; the lessons of a person is not applicable in the life of others, not transmittable, no interchangeable or used otherwise. People have to go through their own pain, struggles, trials, challenges and discomfort to discover some of the hardest lessons of life.
Being an experienced lifer doesn't mean you'll succeeded after learning. People die after learning. In the process of gaining experience people lose their abilities to apply the lessons they've learned and this is one of the biggest pains of life.
I know someone on the internet who was very toxic and had a toxic behaviour but only got to learn her lessons on her deathbed. Unfortunately she cannot apply these lessons anymore.
She learned too late, and would give anything to be kinder, gentler and loving, but unfortunately it was too late. You can learn and still what you've learned will no longer be applicable.
A lot of people learn from bad things happening to them, unfortunately second chances do not present themselves again, and this is the strangest aspect of the school of life.
People are learning everyday, some of these knowledge goes obsolete, useless inapplicable and the right people do not have access to them, since people die with all the knowledge they have in life.
Some people will be luckier than the other, and some people will be extremely unlucky, unfortunately this is just life and there's nothing we can do about it.
This will not stop us from learning because a lot of people will still get second chances at making it right, and this might matter.
