“DIVORCE” is the most controversial, cruel, Heartbreaking, but a truthful word nowadays in every society. All of us are well known of the bad impact of divorce on a family, especially on children, and even on society. And the divorce rate is growing day by day, which is a big concern. People are getting divorced like butter on bread, sometimes willingly and some other times for the reasons, quarrel, misunderstanding, and so on. Most of the time, couples are facing the bad effects of divorce, but the effects on children and other family members are denied or neglected. The divorcees are thinking they are in a bad phase and in a bad situation, which has only one solution is to get a divorce; they are only thinking about themselves. There are some exceptional reasons present for the divorce, but the ratio is too poor.
We often found that divorces are happening due to quarrels and misunderstandings between husband and wife, and extramarital affairs are also the biggest issues we found in a divorce. You won’t find a divorce accomplished all of a sudden, it has a big history of misunderstanding, quarrel, marital affairs, etc, behind the divorce. At present, people are getting divorced frequently to get rid of each other, and the bonding of the family is neglected. When a couple has children and they are getting a divorce, the children are going to face a big and challenging time in the future due to the divorce of their parents, also they are growing away with a traumatized situation in their past. Children always learned the culture and family values in their own family, especially from their parents. In this divorce, the children always suffered than others in the family. The quarrels of the parents always have a big impact on children’s mental and physical health. Children are losing their confidence, are always frightened by their parents’ quarrels, and after a divorce, they feel alone and helpless. Divorced mothers also face big challenges because of the men ruling society, sometimes, they are the main victims. Not only are the couple and children facing this problem, but other family members also bear the bad impact of the divorce. And the society is the eyewitness of this divorce, and it is going to be part of and culture of the society.
We can’t judge all divorces in a bad manner, some divorce is required for the occurred situation, which is why it is a legally approved procedure to get a divorce between a husband and wife. There are many reasons to take a divorce, sometimes the husband is the victim, the wife, and we can even see equality for husbands and wives. The divorcee either husband or wife knows that their decision to take a divorce will have a bad effect on their children, and their children will be traumatized and will face a challenging and bitter life. Even then, they are getting a divorce to get a separation from each other, which can be a symptom that they are mentally sick or unstable, and it’s a matter of fact.
Behind all the divorces, the husband and wife are also going through mental pressure, sometimes more than that, which should be noticeable. Husband and wife start their quarrel with a misunderstanding, sometimes dominating, and most of the time due to extramarital affairs, and gradually it turns into a divorce situation. And passing through this phase, they are going to become unstable mentally, also physically abused, also a big concern about the divorce. We can also find that divorcees regret their divorce, and are also not satisfied or happy after getting a divorce, and with their subsequent life. Most divorces happen in the wrong way, in egoistic and deceptive, traumatic situations. It also affects their mental and physical health. By quarrelling and misunderstanding each other, they are growing mentally sick and prone to divorce at the last stage. From my point of view, children are traumatized in a divorce-seeking family, where it is comparable to the mental well-being of the parents.
