There are a series of words or phrases that for your own good it is better to omit, because they will only be an obstacle so that you can get those things that you want either in your life to work as personal.
1. When."When summer arrives, I will ask for an increase", "when I finish my course, I will start my own business", surely you have said this a few times or you have heard it from other people.
"When" seems to be a very harmless word; However, those who use it too reflect others who do not want to do things very much and who prefer to postpone all their plans or aspirations for another time, which makes that person look as unsteady and lacking in decision.
2. I think. It is very common that when someone is asked to give their opinion about something, to express it, start saying "I think", a phrase that practically all of us have deep roots in and that is really not useful, because even if it does not look like it, you will be doing less work or effort made by the other person and everything indicates that what you want is to impose your will, without taking others into account.
3. Someday. You may not find that there is something wrong with this phrase that we often say, but it is very similar to when, because it only denotes your encouragement to continue postponing what you want to do so much.
The "someday" is like a relief for people who have a somewhat uncertain present and who trust that their situation will improve in the future, a scenario that really will not change if you do not work from now on because that's the case.
4. It does not matter. Usually we say this when someone has made a mistake and perhaps, to not make you feel bad, the first thing that occurs to us is to minimize their failure using that phrase. The best thing will be that in a clear and subtle way, without anger, you make him see what that person was wrong about, so that he tries not to repeat the action, instead of ignoring it.
5. Will power. In certain circumstances it seems to be the perfect remedy to get out of that jam that brings us so much of the head; However, willpower is not something innate in a human being, so instead of pronouncing said phrase every time, it is best to act to get out of a problem or improve their environment.
6. I think. The result is very similar to when we say "I think". The "I think" turns out to be a highly subjective judgment, which can annoy others, since it could mean that what you say is the only and absolute truth, discarding what others think or say.
7. You want, you want, you wait. It is not wrong to want or want something with all your will, the problem is precisely waiting, because by divine work things will not reach your hands. In acting is the key; take a risk and see why you long so much.
8. It's not good enough. Any phrase that contains a no, automatically loses the positive meaning, so you have to avoid them at all costs. If you are in charge of a group, it is very good that you ask them to give their best, although do not forget that there are limits.
Applies the same for when a person makes a self-criticism of their performance in certain work; remember that nothing is perfect, dare to do everything you want, because others could properly assess your effort.
9. I do not have time. It is the preferred excuse of every person, which is synonymous with two things, that little cares about others or what they do, or that is somewhat disorganized.
If you planned your day well, surely you would have between 20 minutes and two hours of free time that you could take advantage of to do other activities that will help you grow and improve professionally and personally.
10. It is not the right time. If you have a plan in mind, it is very likely that you will not find the day or the right time to start it. If you sit down to wait for that moment, we predict that it is very likely that you will not be able to do so.
It is true that for certain factors, whether economic or personal, there are inadequate times to do things, the problem is that you do not know for sure how long they will last. So it is advisable that you adopt a positive mentality and work so that you can start everything at the least bad moment.
