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Growing up I thought maturity has to do with age and how old a person is, which is supposed to be the case.
Cause when growing up there are thing's that naturally we should be able to stop doing or be able to do but when my friend told me about her brother,I finally understood that it doesn't have to do with age but how mentally matured a person is.
She told me that he brother was talking bad about her,going out to talk things that his not supposed to say out regarding that the are Family and family issues should not become a public piece but something private to avoid embarrassment and ill talks.
There was this person in there area,the guy said her brother always complains that she doesn't do anything at home, she's lazy, she's disrespectful and can not even make a proper meal.
Even if she doesn't do the house chores as he claim as an elder brother,who is grown up, respecting his age and the large age gap between them he was supposed to sit her down and not go around spreading and talking bad about her cause she's actually trying her best to work at home.
He has pass the age of snitching on his junior sister but he does it,it means his not matured and maturity shouldn't be consider with age but how mentally and emotionally stable a person is with it's dealing.
There is also an instant which I knew it wasn't by age.I had a misunderstanding with one of my friend who was actually five years older than me, she was all over the place shouting at the top of her voice.She wasn't ready to understand the point I was making,I didn't reciprocate instead I kept quiet when she was done and tried explaining my self and told her my mind in a rather low and understanding tune.After she realized her mistake she apologized and we became cool.
Maturity is not all about age,most at times it has to do with the situation someone has faced in his or her life.The pain someone has gone through,the experiences and discipline the most have pass through,will be what shaped them and make them matured.
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