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When I saw this topic,I couldn't just stop my self form writing about it because there are so many opinions on whether or not is right to check a partner phone.
What came to my mind was,why would you check your partners phone if you trust he/her,we only do that if we don't have trust in our relationship and when there is no trust the relationship is already failing.
The couples that separated during the weekend,even though I wouldn't know the reason about their separation am show the couldn't trust each other and that's why the had to go there separate ways.
Personally, I think having access to my partner phone should be something I can easily do not because I don't trust him or I want to go through his chats but it shows how intimate we are.
When partner start having doubt,that's when the start going through chats and phone number to know if he/she is cheating.
This days,many people in relationship clone there phone or WhatsApp app,the truth is that doing so makes the relationship complicated.
Let's say you have a very jealous boyfriend and he cloned your WhatsApp and he sees messages of someone asking you out or making advances even if you don't accept that person the other person would indeed be jealous and hurt the fact that you have people in your DMs that have feelings for you.
Personally to me, going through my phone isn't bad cause I don't have anything to hide but why do that if not lack of trust, that's my point.
You can have access to each other phone, that's another level of how close you guys are but going through my phone constantly because of lack of trust to find evidence that am cheating is not right but should be done when necessary especially when you feel he is indeed cheating.
Other persons feel that there phone is there privacy and shouldn't be tempered with, everybody is entitled to his or her opinion especially when it concerns that private life.
Genuine relationship these days are indeed scarce and trust is what is missing in most of the relationship,I just hope we try to understand and trust more to avoid been separated after marriage and making the kids feel stressed psychologically.
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