Many of us are living life on societal validations of what will people will say.
Many of us are living in fear too. What if they hear? What will they be saying.
Many of us are affecting our present by reflecting on the past, yet we don't want to continue. There's this exact phobia that keeps us aback whenever we think of trying something new,give a trial or move on from the mistakes of the past.
We get easily fed up, we are so sad each time over the same condition and situation. We are always afraid. We don't want to make another mistake and instead,we keep blaming people for the same errors we committed over and over again.
Let me tell you something.... Getting married young is okay. Getting pregnant young is okay as well.
Being a single parent is okay and not going to varsity after high school is okay too. You can still marry the best, settle down with the best person and also become educated with fine grades.
What is not okay is judging others because their life isn't the way you choose to live yours.
Stop querying someone because of how lucky you were to get a straight path, some don't have the same opportunity you have. If they do, they will also make use of it.
Keep your validations, stop judging others over their life. You cannot understand their pains!
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