How are you, my fellow members of this wonderful community? I've read some of your posts this week and I wanted to share with you a humble contribution to this week's topic.
If I may say so, I love money very much, but I love my husband more than anything in the world, so nothing can replace love, and no one can give me what my husband does. Maybe my husband and I are building our house with tiredness and hard work. I work as a computer teacher, and I like cleaning very much, so I keep my house clean, but this thing is hard.
I would like to say something else: I am not able to be a mother. When the doctor told me this news, her voice was very cold, like it was just a normal thing for her, and she did not feel my pain at all. In that moment, I broke down and cried a lot. For many days, I felt very sad and I thought about staying away from all people and being alone in my room. Also, the words and comments from people around me kept stinging my heart for a long time, and it was very hard to hear their questions.
The only thing that helped me stand up again was my husband's love and his kind words. He always encouraged me and told me that I am enough for him.
The gril in the photo is me
Even though this is a sad thing, my marriage is staying strong. After a long time of sadness, I finally accepted my situation, and now I feel deep inside that God's will is always the best for me, no matter what happens. To stay busy, I am learning a new language and joining this platform to fill my life with useful things.
I also found other simple ways to make myself happy and replace not having children. For example, I started planting many green plants at home, and taking care of them gives me a nice feeling every day. I also raise a small, cute bird, and his name is Pikachu. He makes my house full of nice sounds and joy. In addition, during my holidays, I like to visit orphanages to spend time with the kids there. I try to help them with the little money that I have. Maybe my money is not much, and it is small, but I believe this is much better than nothing at all.
In this case, money cannot help me and cannot buy a baby for me, but maybe it can help in other good ways. Finally, I want to say that the real value of money comes from the way we use it to help other people and make them smile.