Sometimes, people need to realize that just because something didn't go their way the first time, doesn't mean that they made a wrong choice or a wrong decision entirely. And I say this because I know that people tend to associate failure with something that is bad for you, but if you hit your neighbour's car with a stone just because you were trying to throw that stone with your left hand, doesn't mean that your left hand is useless and bad for you.
You could end up training that hand and learning better techniques on how to throw with it, it all just depends on how important that task is to you.
A good example was the blog I made the other day talking about investment. In that blog, I spoke about some shares that my dad bought that ended up becoming useless. Now, just because he didn't make his money back on those shares doesn't mean that the idea of investing your money and buying some shares is a terrible one.
What simply happened was that he got a shitty result for a good decision that he had taken earlier and that happens, it happens all the time to be honest. Just because the decision you took was a good one, doesn't always guarantee that the result will be as good too.
So sometimes, people have to stop judging the process of certain things, simply because they didn't get the desired result. I mean, yes you can make some changes here and there, to ensure that you don't get the same bad result that you got the first time, like making a better research on a more respectable company and looking at what people normally would look at before investing in another shares, rather than just choosing not to invest in shares entirely.
The truth is that things won't always work out the way we want them too. But as long as we trust the process and we learn from our mistakes, we will always come out on top. That, definitely will happen for sure.