There are some people that thinks that immediately they pass through something, it is going to look like that forever. No, the past is not a compass.
It does not determine your future. It is not every past that clears the path for the future. There are always a change in man's life that can change the direction of everything he has done.
Even if all your past is full of disappointment, that doesn't mean that you can't wake up tomorrow and become a precedent. The entire past might be filled with chaos, broken trust, missed opportunities and stuff like that. And over time, those experiences can start to make you feel very bad.
We already preempt your heart to think of the negative result or occurrence that will come out of every single circumstance or scenario that you see yourself in. But you'll be surprised that in some cases, the opposite is the case. Which means that not all past determines the future.
Always give yourself some permission to chart a new course. And that is the key phrase here. Changes is not starting with motivation.
No, people don't get motivated to change. The only people that get motivated to change are the people that hit the gym in the first month of the year. Then in the second and the third month, they return back to their vomit.
You must be ready to outgrow your patterns. All the bad patterns that you have felt in previous times, be ready to outgrow it. A lot of people stay trapped not because they can't live their old story or because they feel guilty even thinking about writing a new one.
They always lure to their past because the past carries a lot of wrong baggage. Everyone is allowed to be different. Even if you have been hurt, that doesn't mean that you are destined for a painful relationship.
Failure in the past doesn't mean that failure forever. And even if people are overlooking you, it doesn't mean that you are so small and uncomfortable that you will be so fast forgettable. That does not mean in life.
Although patterns are learned, they are not permanent. There are also practical ways to chart a new course. You have to immediately identify one pattern from your past.
Then make sure that you are not carrying it forward. Make one new rule that will chart the future. Then make just one single decision in just one week that aligns with your new rules.
With that, you are off to a great start in life.
