Excessive expectation is the root cause of frustration. It is not right to expect so much for something, which is never possible to achieve. There will be nothing but wasted time. There should be an expectation, where we have an evaluation, where we have an honor and where we have the possibility to get it.
Stop wasting your time on the people who have no value for your time. Hundreds of times you have presented yourself in a broken way, waiting day after day with the hope that you will understand a little bit. Didn't spend a little time actually understanding, but stay away from those people .By force, one can never become one's own by going against one's will Only then can one become one's own, when one's desire is similar to one's own desire, one's own desire is similar to one's own desire.
Someone who will respect you, miss you, have eagerness to talk to you for a while, find out how you are doing, what you are doing, whether you are healthy or not , that's your near and dear people. And who shows, ignores, despises, remembers you in retirement, forgets you in busyness, they were never your relatives or near people.