How much do you know about the people you think you know?
Do your emotional attachments to people blind you to their real natures, and if so, how much?
Person A - becomes dependant on others, under the name of love
Person B - makes others dependent upon them, under the name of love
Person C - does both
Person D - does neither
LISTEN UP...
There is no gadget or meter to know when a potential psychic or energy vamp is sucking you dry...The only way to tell you are under attack are...
Feel like shit for no reason
Life starts to suck, for no reason
Constant anxiety, for no reason
Health suffers, energy is down, for no reason
Your depressed and feelings of futility abound, for no reason
Bad dreams, for no reason
Bad attitude, for no reason
Attracting obstacles, for no reason
Getting suspicious, for no reason
Begin to doubt yourself, your god, your destiny, your fate, your sanity, for no reason
oh yes, and you think its ALL YOUR OWN FAULT...Well, maybe it is, and maybe there is something else to learn...
Yes, there is no physical meter with a dial that goes to the red when your being drained and dumped on by others...but there is one kind of meter that has been with us from the beginning...THE HUMAN INTUITION...backed up by arts like Vibrational Kinesiology, and with a healthy dose of REASON, and EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE...it may all start making sense.
It had better...cause they don't all live in Transylvania, and they don't all dress in black...
A few mainstream psychoanalysts have been getting rather frustrated with those clients who just cannot get better, and who seem to backslide, or whose issues seem vague and insurmountable...Yes, they have tried it all, going along with the traditional theories concerning Personal Responsibility, and that we create our own sickness, and all that.
These are important theories...but guess what?
After getting nowhere, a few smart psychologists have put down the textbooks and taken of their spectacles, and have asked those poor patients, the ones with their heads in their hands, questions like...
"So who is around you at this time..." or "So who are you hanging around with..." or "tell us about the people you love..."
Aaaah! - Answers at last. The light shines in at last...The red flags are waving and the mist clears...
Dont believe me? Well, I did not invent it...
Healing fails to occur because it is easier to harm another than heal oneself - Vernon Howard
Humanity must perforce prey on itself, like monsters from the deep - William Shakespeare
Now the betrayer had given them a sign, saying, “The one I shall kiss is the man; seize him - Matt 26:48
For Brutus, as you know, was Caesar's angel: Judge, O you gods! how dearly Caesar loved him. This was the most unkindest cut of all; For when the noble Caesar saw him stab, Ingratitude, more strong than traitors' arms, Quite vanquish'd him: then burst his mighty heart...William Shakespeare (Julius Caesar)
And the brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child: and the children shall rise up against their parents, and cause them to be put to death. And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved – (Matt 10:21-22)
And when his twelve disciples were called together, he gave to them power of unclean spirits, to cast them out of men, and to heal every languor, and sickness - (Matt 10:1)
They that are not as I am made themselves like me. They that are unworthy of me made me angry. The wretches that belong not to the house of my father rose, they took arms against me, they rose, they took arms against me, making war with me, making war with me, fighting for my holy robe, for my enlightening light, that it might lighten their darkness, for my sweet fragrance, that it might sweeten their foulness, because of my brethren, the sons of light, that they might give a peace to their land, because of my sister, the hour of light, that she might be a strengthening of their building - (The Manichean Psalms of Thomas)
Their webs shall not become garments, neither shall they cover themselves with their works: their works are works of iniquity, and the act of violence is in their hands - (Isaiah 59:6)
and the salvation?...That's easy...
I'm ain't looking for nothing in nobody's eyes - (Bob Dylan)
---you there yet?