Many people have gone through situations of disappointment, suffering and pain caused by another person, creating many times in the person suffering desires of revenge, resentment and hatred. Depending on how much damage has been the person is difficult to forgive.
Forgiveness is one of the most beautiful and liberating feelings that can give and receive the human being. It is not easy to forgive, it's not easy say forget it. But when a person lives in a deep resentment is not happy, still in a life where their heart is in an eternal agony that let them be happy. Lost of wonderful, moving forward despite the pain moments. I believe that living well is to go through life like a zombie.
Apologize and accept blame is an act of humility, and I speak of forgiveness from the heart, not out of step. To apologize for our actions, we are accepting that we made a mistake, that our pride is not greater than our humility.
Forgive is of great souls, is of immense spirituality. Jesus Christ was the first to FORGIVE.
Don't keep grudges, free yourself. If you think that the person who hurt you, let the Justice of men or the Justice of God take care of that, but you do not dive into the poison of hatred, it will make you great harm.
Forgive and be forgiven is a beautiful gift. Also forgive you for the times that you did damage with your own behavior, by your vices, your selfishness, your arrogance and lack of tolerance. Forgive you for damage to others while you realize.
It is difficult to forgive, but remember that doing so you bushes love. Remember that all have the certain death, so I ask until she reaches it forgives.
Greetings and blessings.