I just came out from one very serious heartbreak that landed me in the hospital and I was going in and out of the hospital for sometime. I am a bit better now though no more sickness, no more crying, no more moping and gasping for breathe. When I say "men are scum" I mean when you go online people do come out to say this man did this to me, that man did this to me, he broke my heart, he did this he did that and then the generalizes that all men are scum because one man did something today.
I almost fell into that category because I give my all in this relationship but it met a dead end and we just had to go out separate ways. I almost started thinking in that direction but thank God for the friends I have around me. If you go online on social media you hear a lot of people talk bad about men and then people kind of agree to what they are saying because this particular guy broke my heart it is generalized that everybody that bears that particular name are hearts breakers. I could mention a few names there are termed "the breakers" number one Kelvin, two Emmanuel, three, Femi etc.
And I think this has done a lot of harm than good because even those who haven't even gone into relationship or met the person personally would think every man walking on the street or everybody bearing the name Femi is a walking red flag and that's not true and greatly misleading. I could carry my phone and then set my tripod to make a video and say everybody that that bears this particular name is bad because he broke my heart. Meanwhile, deep down I know it's a lie because this is me generalizing it because what one man did. It could be both genders.
A lot of things are factors to these things, the so called ex/ scum could not be the bad person. I'm not trying to defend them though because......
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