It's really not as depressing as it sounds in the title, but ...
I recently took a test in which one of the questions was about what can break a friendship. I can't say that I am a specialist in this field, but I have experienced several ends in my life. And the reasons for this - all sorts. So I have compiled the brightest examples and decided to embarrass myself in public. 馃槀
I have divided the post into two parts and, of course, started with the simplest, from kindergarten to the end of primary school.
In any case, none of these "friendships" lasted more than three years. NONE.
Despite the fact that I don't believe in friendship for life, and people come and go in my life, I hope I don't have to add to this list anymore. It got annoying some time ago.
/There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won鈥檛 anymore, and who always will. So don鈥檛 worry about people from your past, there鈥檚 a reason why they didn鈥檛 make it to your future/. Author: Adam Lindsay Gordon
Reason no. 1: I can't learn to apologize and admit my mistakes
My first best friend was a guy. I don't even remember how we made friends, but he was the man with whom all sorts of nonsense was done. We were both up to the neck of the kindergarten teacher, we ran everywhere and do all other stuff.
The reason was quite stupid - he accidentally hit me. I couldn't say it hurt me, but of course, I was so offended. My desire for attention played a big role here.
The next day, I tried to get things too normal, but my tongue didn't cooperate with me anymore, and I couldn't get the word "forgive" on my lips. So every day I watched him play with the other childrens (they were happy that they had a new member in their circle), but I never started a conversation. With time I got tired and I lost interest.
Reason no. 2: Natural competition.
The next one was 2 boys, we were three together. They both take me in their circle.
If we are honest, then we all know that if you have two best friends, then one of them will be more important. As the months went on, so it happened to us, but whoever flew out from the circle was not me.
But that's life. It cannot be said that the 'third superfluous' was simply pushed out, but after a while, we had fewer common interests.
Reason no. 3: Changing plans, drugs was discovered at the school I should have to go.
The friendship with the rest of these guys was not destined to last long. Also, the plans to sit on one of the school benches never came true.
As I mentioned above, the nearby school was a rather criminal place where even six-year-olds could get everything they wanted, of course, if they knew ho to ask for. Plus, the school had several children who had difficulty controlling their anger, and the youngest children were often used as live punching bags. When my parents heard about this, They quickly took my brother out of school.
But if you think about it ... We live less than a km away from each other (in the countryside it is not a great distance), but we have not really tried to re-establish contact.
Reason no. 4: A friend moves to another school.
The first month of starting classes in the first grade was quite awful. If the other children already knew each other (almost everyone had gone to the same kindergarten), then I was the one who was introduced to a completely foreign environment.
Anyway, the guy sitting on the bench behind me often kicked my feet for hours and got on my nerves in every other way. In a mystical way, arguing turned into something like friendship. Why similar? The desire to push each other down the stairs remained. We never really admitted that there were friends because if someone asked, the answer was "I hate him." He even threatened to cut me out of the classroom photo. 馃槃
In any case, due to family circumstances, he had to change schools in a year. It's a long story ...
Reason no. 5: Distance.
Next came the age when I realized that I had to deal with girls, not boys. I didn't have to look far, I made friends with a girl I had known for a while.
Technically, this friendship ended because the girlfriend moved to another city. And although I already understood what the Internet was and what the phone was for at the time, the contacts also disappeared. Maybe it was influenced by the fact that we had a bit of a fight last summer.
/Some people are going to leave but that鈥檚 not the end of your story. That鈥檚 the end of their part in your story./ Author: Faraaz Kazi
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