Communication between people is about honesty. As the saying goes, nothing can be said to people. Between couples, the word frankness is even more important. Many times, misunderstandings are often caused by one party wanting to know, while the other party does not speak up, which eventually leads to irreversible misunderstandings.
A person I know has a girlfriend who loves each other very much, but not long ago they parted ways due to a little misunderstanding. The cause of the matter is just because of a consumption bill.
The boy invited Party A to spend in certain places because of business needs (of course, the author himself does not approve of this behavior.) And because he was afraid of misunderstanding by his girlfriend, he concealed the matter. And by chance, the girl saw the excessively large consumption list on the mobile phone, became suspicious, and repeatedly asked, and finally the two became inseparable.
At that moment, it seemed that the boy was more sure of how correct he chose to conceal, but unfortunately the confidentiality was not done properly. From the girl's point of view, seeing her boyfriend's concealment, he is even more convinced that the other party must have done something wrong to him.
If at the beginning, the boy will tell his girlfriend openly and honestly that he needs to work, but he promises to keep himself clean. I believe that girl will understand. After all, a boy is just an employee, who is under orders to do things and has no decision-making power.
Compared with bright and bright lies, I am more willing to accept the bloody truth.
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