We humans started loving this world because of our own happiness. We became greedy or it's too much to say, we sought more that makes us happy. We wanted to live longer and don't want to leave because there were a lot of things we will miss. Even just being together with the person we love. That's one of the reasons why living in this world gives us so much pleasure.
On the other hand, happiness can't be determined without the existence of sadness. We can not tell how to feel happy if we haven't felt sadness before. It's a basic explanation that they are part of a human's life. It's a part because we have a subconscious to comprehend whether we like it or not. Just like having problems in life, you can't tell life is wonderful without overcoming it.
We already know what makes us happy but because of worries, we forget all of it. No matter how delighted we were to live, the time came when we wanted to give up. Problems are bigger than ideals. Sadness devoured happiness. Just examples of why there are people who refuse to live despite how wonderful the world is. They will start thinking it is too much to handle and it's so unfair.
Pandemic is the best example of why it's hard to see smiling faces these days. It's rare to find genuine happiness on the street. How we can find one when the crisis is everywhere. Limiting places to go. Limiting the actions we want to do. Limiting everything that will make us happy. Never forget that even having conversations with friends will mean so much mentally. How can we do that when we are not allowed?
Even we or you personally can tell, what makes the world beautiful to live in? By thinking we can't do the things we want in life is kind of depressing. By watching ourselves in the mirror in the same place every day feels suffocating. Who will feel happy with this kind of situation? Is this the world we used to dream about or it's the reality we hope it will be just a dream?
If the question still lingers in our head even though we have this kind of world now. It's a silly question for individuals but I was just thinking if we are giving up now. If we think life is not over and life can be twisted in different ways by hoping it will be. How about continue reading and let me at least offer thoughts to keep clinging to that 1% of happiness in life.
Don't ever think of surrendering just because of the situation we are having now. It's a stupid question for me to speak knowing I'm not wearing the shoes right now. Although, isn't it obvious that no matter the situations we may be in. We all want that happy sensation that we hope we can have back.
Alive - that reason is enough for someone to keep on living.
Smile - if you can still wear that smile perhaps it can be a weapon for you to influence others to smile back and make both of you happy.
Dream - a dream is one of the reasons why we keep on fighting because we are hoping a brighter world awaits in the future. It's a reason to encourage someone not to give up.
Loved ones - if you have loved ones in life never think of giving up or else they will be the anguish of that pain leaving them. Having loved ones is enough to make you feel happy and thankful.
Love - this feeling is the most important of all because it triggers everything. You want to live, smile, dream because of that love towards your loved ones. Having a love for yourself makes you think wiser to appreciate life more instead of discriminating against it.
I know it's not easy to overcome sadness in life. I'm not saying it's not hard either if we focus on the things that make us happy. Even just a simple reason is enough for someone to be grateful for life. If ever something disappoints us, you can change that feeling by accepting that this is just the flow of life.
Acceptance is the hardest thing to do. How can you accept it when it's killing you inside. How can you accept it when you refuse to because it's too much and you don't want it. However, if you can understand and have patience you will realize that it's better to accept rather than being hard on yourself. Accept it and just focus on the things that make you happy. By then, you will have that happiness because you know in yourself that this is what makes you happy. That alone can forget all the worries and always be positive in life.
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Paul is the name but prefers to be called mrnightmare that feels like living in the dream. A country boy and a dreamboy (dreamer) who likes to stay in a small village even though it means abandoning the future to become a seaman. The passion is writing but not sailing in the vast ocean. Don't wonder if the face will not be shown, this is better where the words can flow smoothly. Come, have fun with me talking about life events and random activities. It's fun to learn about life, don't hesitate, let's figure it out as we continue enjoying staying in this world.
